Thank you all for your advice. I am in fact a very devoted Christian and thats probably why I haven't lost my mind yet. And I have decided to redevote myself to my one true love Jesus. Perhaps through Him I can find the patience to continue my relationship with my Husband. So far though, I have prayed for patience and understanding for myself, I have prayed that God would open my husbands eyes to the needs of others around him, and I am continueing to pray that God will interceed on my behalf. Which in fact I believe He did at one point.
Quick testimony about that. My husband found out he was goint to loose his job becuase his company went bankrupt. The next day he was off so he went to a job fair and he was offered an interview for the next day, which he was also off for. So he went to the interview and was offered a job making nearly three times as much as he was making at the old job. Thank you, Jesus! So there was not even a break in pay from one job to the next, and I was still able to continue to work part time. The only downside to this is that now my husband complains about how stressful the job is. I've determined this is because he actually has to work. He has had very layed back jobs over the past 15 years and was able to sleep when there were no customers or play on the computer. My hope was and still is that the job would give him more confidence in himself so that he might start paying attemtion better and trying to help me.